http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6qTXCLfWDaA
not sweets alone in Richard Digance's song ....
I kind of wonder what is happening in 'this world'.
Then we had a few pence pocket money and we learned to use and spend it, as we wanted, gave us some control. We could save what we wanted or not. Any little addition from Grandpa or uncle was welcome, but not a gimme gimme. It did not seem to be a problem, all that candy, with teeth - there was the Gibbs Dentifrice competion and the programme. Teeth were cleaned religiously. We enjoyed our sweets, the choosing, as you say, was a part of the experience. We knew when to wait for things, because it was known in the family that Dad works hard for the money, and the family spent it to feed and clothe us. As far as I have seen over recent years kids just plead or scream to get what they want (tell me I am misjudging them) parents give in because they cannot take any more, parents have pots of money and shower kids with everything they don't need, which is used until broken or dumped in tedium (I have seen back yard burgeoning with toys that have not been used for over two years, and left there). Then there is the panic over poor eating habits and rotting teeth and obesity, as well as peer pressure about which team shirt to wear or which trainers to buy, and which drop-out to mimic. I have a memory of us kids being smartly dressed and well spoken, respectful and careful with what we had. Yes, we had moouthy little oiks but not that many. Thank God I am not a child now, it must be horrible and to not have a future except through the benificence of some faceless Nanny State, afraid to let them run free and happy, in a country that is politically correct, afraid of its own shadow. They appear to get every comfort except the love and attention that we had when children. I know there are some notable exceptions. But I remember my mother sitting with us and reading a book to us. I know one particular gran who does here, and I place her on a pedestal, I think she is just great. I suspect there may be others and I have no wish to offend, but I can only sat what I see. Little tackers 'kicked out' to the winds of the world, or dumped in front of a US cartoon show. Parents that have no idea or concern as to what they are doing or where they are. Glued to the mobile phone or iPod. It is 230 in the morning and there is some teenager out in the street bored out of his skull and drunk, no doubt, kicking around an empty can. What a waste.

You can tell me that I am wrong. I feel the kids are getting the raw end of the deal in 2010. I was happy and glad to be a kid in 1950.
What they have been given is Fear and Rules. We had Freedom and Common Sense. I have clung to the last two all my life.
I digress .... ::6: